When Life Is Hitting You Hard
It is not life that is not on your side. It`s just things are not meant to be. Sometimes life can hit you so much until you crush and your mind is in total darkness. All you can think was “Urgghhh it`s the end of my life”
Life is teaching you lessons to be better in the future and know how to take the world. Life is fair, giving you things that you hate and sometimes offering you great things. If no ups & down, it is not life, you`ll be dead by now. I feel sorry to hear about your situation dear Theresa. Life can hit us so hard sometimes. Hitting us so hard until we end up restless, sad and angry. We started to question God, why? Why me?
“Dear Theresa,
It is not only you, each one of us are going through hurdles in life. No exception. Each one of us. God or whoever that set this is trying to guide us to become tougher in life. Expect the unexpected.
It`s okay to cry and dwell this sadness but at one point you need to move on. You have parents and friends that care about you. You have other bigger problems that you need or going to deal with. Your career! Wake up! Dress pretty and look good. Later your ex-boyfriend will look at you like “dam she is hotter now” .. When that time come just wave your hand at him and say “GOODBYE! I got much better guy now” … time to flip your hair and walk out!
p/s: That`s the same exact thing I will tell my daughter and on a plus note, I will ask my husband to kill the ex-boyfriend too. Haha.
She got dumped by her 7 years boyfriend and at the same time the boss was giving her option to take the new roles with salary cut or leave the job. I cannot imagine if this happen to my daughter / son. Imagine if she tells this to her mother?
This week indeed has been very challenging week even for me. Expectations from work, family, my weight loss journey, relationship plus with my unstable stupid super emotional due to PMS. Everything!! Everything!! But I`m bless that I have them no matter what. I can`t afford to crush myself because of mom an try to be cool no matter what. But when dealing with heart. It just crushes you so much then run away from people and hide behind the door and cry. It is okay! Cry as much as I can. Then back on track again. Ohhh dear I really miss my late dad now! :-(
